SUICIDE- A CURSE TO SOCIETY

In now a days the news of suicide has become very common. In news papers we can found articles related to it. The attempts of suicide is most common in teenagers but now adults also commit suicide as they cannot cope with their problems and without doing efforts to solve their problems they choose to end their life. So lets discuss about the reasons why one commit suicide.

STRESS- It is one of the most important reason that lead to suicide one takes of stress about anything weather it could be of studies, relationship, family, family pressure, over expectations etc. So one thing everyone should understand is taking stress of anything never brings a solution or it never solves that problem in place of it, it makes the situation more worse. Thinking about that thing again and again gives birth to negativity inside us, we start blaming ourselves and think that we are of no worth and finally there comes the thought of suicide. So in order to deal with stress we must think about the reason of stress and must evaluate that weather the issue is really important that it needs our attention if it is small it could be ignored, to ignore stress we must get busy in our own life must do our daily work properly talk to people about it and must take their opinion. The better way and best motivator around us is our parents we must talk about it with them.

·      RELATIONSHIP- It is one of the major cause of suicide among youngsters they commit suicide unlessly when they cannot deal with breakups and cannot maintain healthy relationship. It is true that breakups hurt the most but ending life because of a relationship which is no more is never a good option. In these situations the thoughts and thinking of people become their enemy people think that they got breakup to whom they have trusted the most now no one would like me or other thoughts like my life and time has got wasted because of it now there is no worth of my life in his/her absence.

Guys you should understand your life is not wasted you are never too late to become successful you must understand it was just a phase of life which taught you something learn from it and move on endless opportunities are still present in front of you and you will meet lots of many more good people in future so why worry about a person which was never meant to be in your life. You are awesome and just you need to shape yourself and you will get the best.

·      STUDIES- This the most common reason behind the suicides of students whenever they cannot crack any competitive examination or cannot get good marks in school they commit suicide. This is mainly due to excess family pressure of bringing good marks or becoming a doctor or engineer and lots of expectations of family and society. Whenever a student falls in such situation he/she thinks that now what will the people of society will say about him/her, how they would face their parents and all other negative thoughts and finally reaching to no solution they commit suicide. So to save your children’s from this situation parents you must understand your child their ability and should never make pressure upon them regarding their studies and learning there are many students who are slow learners so they will definitely learn so just stay calm and believe upon their ability. Everyone could not be doctor or engineer so don’t force your children to choose that carrier

And to students, you must know that failure is never an ending “SUCCESS IS A JOURNEY AND THERE WILL BE LOTS OF UPS AND DOWNS” Because of a failure you should never get depressed and you must also see that after doing lots of effort when you cannot succeed in that field try to do something new because in this world there are lots of opportunities   in every field but suicide is not a good option.

·      CARRIER- Not performing well in carrier or choosing a carrier in which a person is not interested lead to suicide because in this case a person feel helpless and think him/her as a worse person it also happens due to work load. It is also seen that looking towards the crowd a person also choose the same carrier even its of not his choice and ability, later they don’t perform well in that field then reaching at to no option they bring their life to end. To escape from this situation one must look over his/her ability and talent then choose a carrier according to it by doing so they will perform well in that field.

·      FRIENDS AND FAMILY- When a person cannot build healthy relation with their friends and family he feel depressed and sad all the time. In their mind there rises negative thoughts and they start thinking that there is nothing good around them everything is against them as they become introvert so not being able to share their problems they think of ending their life.

Other case is choosing of wrong friends and being around wrong people. It mostly happens in school kids and college students that a group of students start bullying and teasing any weak guy  lot it happens at an extent that by facing all this that student don’t want to go to school or college and due to lack of guidance and support they commit suicide. In colleges there comes ragging and again some weak stude4nt suffer a lot from it and many news have been herd that a student commit suicide after being depressed from ragging and bullying so to escape this situation one should make good friends who always stay with them give good advice and protect them too. Next is if someone is bullying you don’t get depressed for it talk to them for the reason of teasing and and give them a name too.. it sounds funny but when we start taking these things as fun we don’t feel bad anymore.

For college students it is a best advice that if you are feeling inferior among students and think as a beta male, join a gym build your personality invest upon yourself thyen later you will see the magic that a confidence develops in yourself automatically.

When there are disputes in your family then inspite of being depressed from it talk to your family discuss about the dispute and try to resolve it with the family members.    

“NO POISON CAN KILL A POSITIVE THINKER AND NO MEDICINE CAN CURE A NEGATIVE THINKER”        
     -Dr A.P.J ABDUL KALAM

These lines were said by our  great scientist Dr A.P.J ABDUL KALAM it means that there are no situation which can kill a positive thinker he finds solution in every problem but in case of negative thinker there is nothing which can save them because they always think about negative things and create a negative era around them the suicide attempts also depends upon thinking only not the situation because harsh situation comes in everyone’s life but who find solution survive and those who cannot commit suicide and it’s a request to readers that don’t ever think for suicide it will ruin your whole family’s life there are lots of wonderful things in world focus on that. And share this page to everyone in order to save negative thinkers.